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Russian Dating Questions

Does anyone really believe in online dating?

I really have never given it serious thought. In fact my Yahoo Personals account exists solely to bait Russian scam artists. Still, I wonder if if people do it more for vanity and see who and how many people they can attract based on a photo and a few scant details.

Yeah, some people actually do believe in it, although I’m firmly against it….

Kiss Me Katyusha – Russian Online Dating Tips

“How did it happen that their lips came together? How does it happen that birds sing, that snow melts, that the rose unfolds, that the dawn whitens behind the stark shapes of trees on the quivering summit of the hill? A kiss, and all was said.”
Victor Hugo
One of the first pieces of advice my father gave me was how to lead up to kissing a girl for the first time. “First,” he said in a low voice looking up at my mother who from the kitchen smiled coyly at him, “gently grasp her hand. Odds on she’ll instinctively close her hand around yours, maybe a little surprised by her own reaction. But by then in her mind, you see, it’s too late for her to retreat. She’s committed to the gesture. Then take her hand and kiss it…kiss the back softly, turn her hand over, kiss the palm. Take your time. It’s the perfect entr?e to a kiss on the lips. After all, you need to start someplace…”
In Russia, even amid the financial crisis, there seems to be an increase of instances of public intimacy which leads one to speculate what and how much more is going on behind closed doors. The metro in any given Russian city here is a prime example and the long escalator ride into the underground abyss is ground zero. Here you’ll notice that the standard position for couples on the metro escalator calls for the man to take up the lower stair when either ascending from or descending onto the platform. This puts the amorous couple in perfect position for a long smooching embrace. Everywhere in the subway system one can see couples pushing the envelope of affection in spite of the throngs that surround them. So much so that last year saw a Moscow city ordinance go down in flames which sought to prohibit kissing and embracing in the metro system.
All this propensity of public affection goes to show that the Russians have a healthy handle on their love lives in spite of the current global predicament. They know and employ one of the best ways to combat stress through sensuous touch and intimacy whenever and where ever possible.
Professor Helen Fisher, an anthropological biologist at Rutgers University, says “Times of stress can trigger feelings of attraction – quite simply, you’re more susceptible.” Her theory is based on feelings of anxiety that stimulate the amount of dopamine in the brain, a chemical that leads to increased desire and longing for romantic love.
This theory was recently backed by a recent RIA Novosti news conference entitled “Love during the crisis”, which featured experts from the All-Russian Public Opinion Studies Center (VtsIOM). Their research reveals a 13 per cent increase of ‘lonely hearts’ in Russia since the beginning of the worldwide financial crisis, with those surveyed rating love and intimacy more important during periods of trouble than during affluent times.
Indeed, research indicates that love and family are overwhelmingly the main life focus of Russians. The Novosti survey found that 59 per cent of Russians believe in love at first sight. Yelena Pakhomova, the head of social research at VtsIOM, says “The most romantic at heart live in the Urals and the Northwestern Federal districts.”
In the midst of the financial turmoil and materialism that has swept the world, the blissful truth is that a kiss is still gloriously free. And what loving couples know is that a long, passionate kiss is a great way to boost a relationship and sweep away the blues. Those who have been together the longest will often claim that what keeps marriage fresh is regularly making out like high school teens.
A long, romantic kissing session following a delicious meal and bottle of good wine, can be a therapeutic means to improve one’s mood and relax to the fullest. A long kiss releases a glorious rush of hormones and neurotransmitters, which leads to an exhilarating buzz of endorphins. Kissing promotes good health, can boost immunity and even provides a form of physical exercise (burning a few calories a minute!).

Guide ‘The Art of Kissing’ by Michael Cane discusses how regular sessions of intense kissing can form the foundation of a successful relationship. He says, “Women say they can tell if a relationship is going to work after the first kiss, after the first night of kissing. They just get a feeling, an intuition.”
When times are tough and work life becomes complicated, making out with a loving partner can be a great way to release tension and anxiety. And in the words of one of our favorites, Anna Kournikova…
“I have a lot of boyfriends…and I kiss them all.”

 

Russian Women Online

Dating Russian Women Online – What Are Your Biggest Mistakes?

Dating Russian women online is not really that different to dating someone locally.  You see her, you introduce yourself, you work out if there is an attraction and start to get to know each other.  Rules of attraction are universal and apply if you are talking through email or chatting in a bar.

Online might share the chemistry of live relationships, but it also shares the stumbling blocks.  For the inexperienced not familiar with this, everything might be going along fine and suddenly her interest goes cold.  Her emails are short and only come occasionally.  Your girlfriend will not reply to your messages regardless of how hard you try to get the spark back.  You might get the “I only see you as a friend” email or even worse, she ignores you completely.

What Did You Do Wrong?

To answer this question, lets look at how men kill a relationship and what you can do to avoid these mistakes.

Trying To Impress Her

The biggest mistake western men make with Russian women is believing that money is important to her.  After all, your nice house and car has got to attract a tidal wave of women, right?

Wrong.  If you try and impress her with your material possessions then you are only going to attract the women who want a sugar daddy.  And you know what happens to men who get a trophy wife?  A younger, better looking man ends up polishing it. The genuine women that want a long term relationship tend to be interested in human relationships and a personal connection, not what you own.  Fill your emails which descriptions of what you own and she will quickly lose interest.

It’s All About Me

Online dating is just the same as face to face dating.  I agree, you miss out on the body language when laughs or flirts with you, but that is what instant messenger and a web cam is for.  So men who fail with this next mistake when meeting local men will also fail online.  And that mistake is trying to make an impression by talking about yourself too a lot. 

Attempt to be too interesting and you will drive off your date as easily it will scare off your online love.  In any relationship, sometimes you have to shut up and pay attention.  Are you merely talking all about you or are you actually reading what she is writing and forming a genuine conversation around that?  Your conversations need to be well balanced if you are going to fulfill her emotional expectations.  If you don’t then she will just ignore your messages and look for a man who will.

Agreeing With Everything She Says

Universal law of dating number 2 – all women test men.  It is not a written test and there are no answers.  But it is a test to see if you are worth getting to know more amongst the crowd of men vying for her attention. 

Your first test is – are you capable of standing up for what you think.  Goal oriented men will express their opinions.  They will avoid being aggressive about presenting their thoughts, but they will give their opinion in a dominant way.  So if you find yourself agreeing with everything a woman says, she will quickly lose interest.

Look at this way, if you are similar in every facet, what do you have to talk about?  There are no differences of opinion to create an interesting conversation.  That’s the best case scenario.  The worst case is you deliberate avoid disagreeing with her or try and find out what she thinks first before stating your opinion.  What you are doing her is giving her the lead in the relationship.  She wants you to lead and act like a man.  Don’t give her your masculinity unless you like calling her ‘mistress’.

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Russian Brides Online

A Few Tips For Newbies Searching For A Russian Bride

The Russian online dating scene has become very popular over the last few years, with the arrival of broadband and internet it is now possible to sign up to a Russian dating site in two minutes and have a date in ten minutes. Too many guys who are new to this it can be a little scary, with so many beautiful hot Russian brides online it is very easy to forget about some basic guide lines. Here are a few important tips to help you through the first stages of searching for a Russian bride. 

Clever Communication

If you have signed up to a online Russian dating site where you can chat, you should keep all chatting small to start, do not get carried away . First chats should be used to describe your interests and desires and about yourself, it is important you also find these first bits of information from your lady to see if you really do have anything in common, and to decide if you want to try to build a relationship with your lady.

Don’t Fall In Love Too Fast

Statistics show you should date at least a dozen people before you choose your right partner for a long term relationship or marriage. The same applies when chatting to hot Russian brides on the internet.  There are thousands of beautiful Russian women looking for romance and love, so take your time, do not fall in love with the first Russian women you start chatting to however beautiful she may be. 

It’s not easy But Try To Resist Jealous Urges 

If you think you have found a lady and all is going well, you will probably be wondering if she is also forming relationships or chatting with other men. You should always try to refrain from questioning her about this subject, or asking her any questions about other men, this may offend her and could scare her off. You should remember that these hot Russian brides are receiving mail from men from all over the world every day, probably just like yourself. Long distance relationships and this type of internet dating are not the easiest to establish and takes a lot of trust. But it is possible thousands of men from all over the world have found their love this way, but it takes a lot of trust and commitment. 

Stay safe, Follow your instincts

While chatting to Russian brides it is very important to follow your instincts. There are a lot of bad stories of men being ripped off by Russian scammers, if you follow your instincts you will not have any problems, it is not just Russian dating sites that you will find scammers, if you have the slightest feeling something is not right you should stop your communication and move onto someone else. Never ever send a lady any money this is the biggest mistake you can make in Russian dating, NO decent Russian women would ever ask for any money, if she asks for money, some are very clever and will have you feeling pity and offer to send money, if you do this you can be 100% sure this lady is a scammer and you will not see your lady or your money ever again. Sometimes it can be very hard for you to resist the urge to help your chosen lady by sending her some money, but do not do this! Would you ever go out in the street and hand complete stranger money? NO so never send any to a stranger, or person you have not met.

Best of luck in your searches, commitment and determination and you will find your Russian love.