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Dating Russian Women Online – What Are Your Biggest Mistakes?

Dating Russian women online is not really that different to dating someone locally.  You see her, you introduce yourself, you work out if there is an attraction and start to get to know each other.  Rules of attraction are universal and apply if you are talking through email or chatting in a bar.

Online might share the chemistry of live relationships, but it also shares the stumbling blocks.  For the inexperienced not familiar with this, everything might be going along fine and suddenly her interest goes cold.  Her emails are short and only come occasionally.  Your girlfriend will not reply to your messages regardless of how hard you try to get the spark back.  You might get the “I only see you as a friend” email or even worse, she ignores you completely.

What Did You Do Wrong?

To answer this question, lets look at how men kill a relationship and what you can do to avoid these mistakes.

Trying To Impress Her

The biggest mistake western men make with Russian women is believing that money is important to her.  After all, your nice house and car has got to attract a tidal wave of women, right?

Wrong.  If you try and impress her with your material possessions then you are only going to attract the women who want a sugar daddy.  And you know what happens to men who get a trophy wife?  A younger, better looking man ends up polishing it. The genuine women that want a long term relationship tend to be interested in human relationships and a personal connection, not what you own.  Fill your emails which descriptions of what you own and she will quickly lose interest.

It’s All About Me

Online dating is just the same as face to face dating.  I agree, you miss out on the body language when laughs or flirts with you, but that is what instant messenger and a web cam is for.  So men who fail with this next mistake when meeting local men will also fail online.  And that mistake is trying to make an impression by talking about yourself too a lot. 

Attempt to be too interesting and you will drive off your date as easily it will scare off your online love.  In any relationship, sometimes you have to shut up and pay attention.  Are you merely talking all about you or are you actually reading what she is writing and forming a genuine conversation around that?  Your conversations need to be well balanced if you are going to fulfill her emotional expectations.  If you don’t then she will just ignore your messages and look for a man who will.

Agreeing With Everything She Says

Universal law of dating number 2 – all women test men.  It is not a written test and there are no answers.  But it is a test to see if you are worth getting to know more amongst the crowd of men vying for her attention. 

Your first test is – are you capable of standing up for what you think.  Goal oriented men will express their opinions.  They will avoid being aggressive about presenting their thoughts, but they will give their opinion in a dominant way.  So if you find yourself agreeing with everything a woman says, she will quickly lose interest.

Look at this way, if you are similar in every facet, what do you have to talk about?  There are no differences of opinion to create an interesting conversation.  That’s the best case scenario.  The worst case is you deliberate avoid disagreeing with her or try and find out what she thinks first before stating your opinion.  What you are doing her is giving her the lead in the relationship.  She wants you to lead and act like a man.  Don’t give her your masculinity unless you like calling her ‘mistress’.

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